Do you have someone to whom you are accountable? (93-1)

Written by Barry-Werner on October 26th, 2009. Posted in 2 Samuel, Accountability, Leadership Principles, Old Testament.

Effective leaders use the same standards for themselves that they apply to others. They hold themselves accountable just like everyone else on the team. Maintaining such accountability involves seeking 360-degree honesty. Skilled leaders consistently receive feedback from those who work above them, beside them, and for them. Failure to provide a structure for such accountability will lead to a crisis of character and leadership. Read 2 Samuel 11.

David is a different man in 2 Samuel than we have seen previously. Somewhere along the way, he decided he didn’t need to be accountable to either God or his men in order to lead well. He no longer prepared for new challenges. When leaders stop voluntarily making themselves accountable, they stop succeeding.

The sad story of David’s dealings not only with Bathsheba, but also with her husband Uriah, one of his thirty mighty men and closest friends, illustrates how even the greatest leaders can succumb in a moment of weakness to betrayal, adultery, treachery, and murder. Having committed these acts, David then attempted a cover-up.

David was a king that had it all. He enjoyed an intimate walk with God, a family, a stable political position, and an unbroken string of military victories. The one thing he didn’t have was Uriah’s wife. And that is what he wanted. While the rest of his army was at war, he stayed home. Apparently, no officer or other leader dared to question his wisdom or his decision. With no one holding him accountable he drifted in his thinking all the way to justifying adultery and eventually murder to cover his tracks.

The most important verse in Chapter 11 is verse 27. David could hide his sins from those around him but he could not hide his actions from God. The tragedy of King David underscores what can happen when leaders fail to create a structure in which they are answerable for how they spend their private and professional time. Ultimately, as He did with David, God will hold every leader accountable.

Wise leaders recognize their own vulnerability to fall and don’t wait for a crisis to establish accountability. They establish structures and relationships that harness their sin and unleash their potential. Do you practice 360-degree honesty? Do you have someone to whom you are accountable for your private and professional life?

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Comments (2)

  • Pat Badstibner
    October 27, 2009 at 4:30 am |

    Well I think you now have covered all the bases. It amazes me the amount of leaders are those trying to lead who have no one in their live asking them he hard questions.

    I could not imagine making a step as an aggressive leader without having someone go “WHAT IN THE WORLD” or “Sounds Good To Me” or “You Hit The Nail On The Head” My biggest mentor once said something that stunned me as he said “Pat have you ever noticed the ones who would accuse us of being arrogant have no real accountability in their lives.”

    Thanks for hitting the nail on the head again Barry/

  • Mary West
    October 26, 2009 at 5:05 pm |

    I have several people in my life who know me well and are constantly staying in touch with me to folllow my career and keep me focused on God and on the dream and vision that God has placed on my heart to do in the kingdom. My accountability partner knows my private life and questions me consistantly on my decisions and directions that it takes. She knows when Ive strayed and calls me to ask what I was thinking when I make a bad decision. Then she points me back to the way in which I should go. Im glad God has placed them in my life to help me stay focused on Him. It truly is not about me. Its about Him and His purpose for me. I would not be where I am with out accountability to someone with Godly character. Ultimately they are preparing me for the accountability to God on the day when we all must face Him and give an account. In His Love and Care, Mary

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